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To be happy, you need to learn three things: ACCEPT THINGS YOU CAN'T CHANGE, LET GO OF THE PAIN, APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE.


1: Falling in love with someone who is deeply in love with another
2: Losing yourself in the process of loving someone so much
3: Falling for someone who is not willing to catch you
4: Falling for someone who caught you but eventually let you go
5: Being left behind by someone who matters the most to you
6: Meaning nothing to someone who means everything to you
7: Being second best, an option, a rebound, or cheated on
8: Seeing the person you love so happy with someone else
9: Getting stuck in the past
10: Letting go of someone who was never yours
11: Having someone who loves you so much but you can't just love back
12: Making decisions you know you'd regret someday
13: Laughing to hide the pain
14: Being in a relationship that makes you feel more alone than when you were single
15: Suppressing your feelings for someone

Best friend: Do you know what makes it hard for you to leave him even if he is not treating you right anymore?
You: What?
Best friend: You THINK that you can't stand a single day knowing that he is not yours anymore. You've convinced yourself that you can't make it not having him in your life. You don't know what to do with the dreams you built together, with your plans for the future, with your life that you've concretely patterned with his. You are blindedly convinced that he is THE ONE and maybe he is, someday, when he has already learned how to commit and appreciate and be mature. I still do not completely eliminate that possibility, no matter how remote it could be. However, he still has a lot of growing up to do. Now, love's not the sole reason why you can't walk away, why you are settling for less. You are scared that he'd forget you and move on before you could. More than that, you are terrified that you won't find someone who will love you and take his place. You are afraid of being alone and being labeled as his makes you feel less alone because you belong to someone. More than the fear of pain, what holds you back is your fear of solitude. You don't want to let go because nobody's going to call you baby anymore or no one's going to frequently call and text you or there would be no cuddling during bed weathers or holding hands while strolling or taking of silly pictures together. You do not know what to do with all the vacant time that you're going to have the moment you leave. Knowing that you've wasted your time on someone whom you think is destined for you terrifies you too. This is why you are so determined to make it work even if you are not being treated the way you deserve -- because you want to convince yourself that saying yes to that person in the first place, losing yourself in him, letting him love you back, and spending so much time with him weren't all bad choices. You still want to convince yourself that you can call this relationship as worth it even if you are suffering too much. But dear, please. It's all in your mind. Change your mindset and choose to set him and yourself free for the meantime. Use this time to learn to love yourself.

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